why muz we who always take initiative and effort to feel disappointed and frustrated? i have consider a option for a long time n tink it's time to b the one waiting to b called to attend outing. no more planned bdae cele. if u wan to cele wit frens, u b the organiser. if not den dun cele. unless u r dat kind who dun care abt ppl bdae as well as your bdae. den pls dun hope ppl wil care abt yr bdae too. it has been 8 yrs n im sick of feeling disappointed. but as time goes by, im feelin less of it. which is good. Happy bdae fei!